Okay so I wanted to share with all my readers one of my new passions. It’s something that I absolutely love to do & something that I take serious & plan on doing as a side career. And that is cooking, I’ve been seriously cooking for about 2 years now. And I absolutely love it & I’m actually great at it & I really truely cook like a chef does. I don’t cook anything like a normal house cook does, I cook like a chef does.
Somebody who should be a a restaurant, not somebody who should only be in a kitchen at home. So I plan on doing something about that real soon. As soon as I get done getting my bachelors degree I’m going to go to culinary school. So in the near future I will be a real chef, even though in my mind I already am. You don’t need a title to know what you’re good at & I’m GREAT at cooking & I absolutely love doing it also. God has given me a gift when it comes to cooking I must say!!! AND YES THE PICTURES ABOVE ARE FOOD THAT I COOKED MYSELF, THIS IS MY FOOD!!!
So I had somebody tell me that they I guess kinda thought that I have to much bad stuff on my blog. And they think that people won’t want to read my blog if I don’t stop putting so much bad stuff on it. Even though this person likes my blog & thinks that it’s a good blog. They I guess just don’t want people to be scared off by all the bad stuff that I write about or something like that. But I don’t agree with this personally because my blog is about my life.
And I feel like if I’m going to have a blog about my life that I have to be honest with my readers. Even if it means that some parts of my blog have more bad things then good things. Plus sometimes this is just how life is, sometimes for a period of time your life & the things that you go through are all bad. But that doesn’t mean that it’s going to stay that way but if this is what’s going on with my life right now. Then I have to be honest & share it, no matter how others may feel or who I may turn away.
This blog is about me & my life, so I owe it to my readers to always be honest about what’s going on in my life & where my life is at that point. Cause at the end of the day this is just how life is & honesty is always the BEST policy. So to all my readers please understand & please continue to enjoy reading my blog & please feel free to tell me how you all feel about any of my postings!!!
So I’m writing this blog because I’m beyond fed up & I think it’s time that I share this struggle that I’m going through with my readers. So I’m sure that a lot of you single parents, especially single mothers can related to what I’m about to say right now. Well just in case you can’t already tell I’m a single mother. So no I’m NOT with the father of my child, nor do I EVER care to be with him again. But basically he’s really not a real father, he thinks that being a father only means that you have to spend time with his child.
But in his small mind having a child doesn’t require him to help me out financially at all. Now how he thinks that this is true I don’t know but he goes into the category with every other dead beat father out there in this world. Just because u spend time with a child doesn’t make you a parent. Anybody can spend time with a child but that doesn’t make you a parent. So then if that isn’t bad enough his wife let’s him treat me any kind of way when it comes to our son & I get that she’s his wife.
But reguardless you don’t let anybody do things that you know are wrong and go along with it reguardless of who the person is to you. Wrong is wrong is wrong. And her being a woman and having children of her own from a previous relationship that she wouldn’t let my Babydaddy treat me any mind of way when it comes to our child. Because I’m sure she wouldn’t like it if her babydaddy’s wife or girlfriend did her like that & sat back and did nothing as a woman.
But she’s that weak when and that less of a woman that no matter how he treats me, that she goes along with whatever he does to me when it comes to our son. So now I have to take him to court for real now to make him do what he needs to do & to show them both that he can’t treat me any kind of way he wants to when it comes to OUR child. And to show him that he can’t do whatever he wants to and get away with it but he should of just been a man about this situation. And realized his responsibilities with I got pregnant but since he didn’t and he thinks he can do whatever he wants to when it comes to our child. He’s now going to be forced to do right & to find out that he CAN’T do whatever he wants to when it comes to OUR child!!!
Okay so this posting is kinda meant to be more of a funny posting. So I know that a lot of people love to eat ice but when my now 3 year old son starting eating it I really realized just how much people really love ice. He got sick once and had a fever so of course ice gets the fever down. So we gave him some ice & he was about 1 in a half then or something like that. And every since then he’s been obsessed with ice & now he’s 3 in a half.
And when I say he’s obsessed I mean he’s SERIOUSLY obsessed with it to the point where he begs for it. And it’s really like mind blowing to me to see a 3 yr old so into ice & I can’t figure out what in the world is to good about ice that it can have this much power over a 3 yr old or really anybody. So can any of my readers please tell me what is so great about eating ice or what is so great about the ice that makes people want to eat it so much. If anybody can answer this for me please leave a comment on this posting, I’d really appreciate it so much. And thanks you also!!!
Just updating my reader on my mj collection, got a few new mj things and wanted to update everybody on my collection where it is as of right now. so enjoy everybody!!
Okay so I’m finally getting serious about growing my nails back out. And it’s very hard for me because I’ve always been a biter, I’ve been biting my nails my whole life. But about the past year or so I’ve been growing them back out. Then everytime I get stressed out a out the smallest things they’re in my mouth & the next thing that I know I don’t have any nails lefted. But now I’m for once serious about growing my nails & about keeping them. And going all natural with my nails, plus I love when I see women or celebs on tv with their nails natural & painted.
They look so nice to me, so that’s how I for once & seriously want my nails to be. So I’m doing everything that I can to grow them out & keep them healthy. And so far so good, they are starting to come out & they look pretty healthy all ready. So as soon as they get to the length that I want them to be I will make a video of what I’m using to get them to grow and to keep them healthy also. So be on the watch for that video within the next few weeks. And please pray that I can’t keep them out of my mouth & that I find something else to do when I’m dressed out. So until then, ttyl to all my readers!!!!